Wednesday, November 30, 2005

I am unhappy :-(

Why do articles like these:Money,Sex and Happiness ;What makes us happy?;Best Age to Marry make me drool? Why do they ocuppy my conscious? I see a heading and I desire to assimilate the knowledge. Is it useful knowledege? Am I just wasting my time? I don't know. I am torn between knowing the truth and wanting to discover what I don't know.


Blogger Littleredridinghoodie said...

Sex can be great but don't forget the aftermath... children... that will put you indebt about 50, 000 so don't believe that article that you need 50,000 to be as happy as sex once a week. On the other hand... it may cost you that much to get "it" when you are older... weigh out the odds do you want to get maried now and have great sex (I gather you are in your prime) or pay for it later?

The important thing to know about sex is that it is like writing an essay you make it up, the only thing is that if you are not honest you may not get the other person to climax.. then you may not have sex again with that person for a while... you need to listen to what she wants and please her so she will let you touch her again. It is not just SEX it is making love to a person.

I heard a great saying on sex in the city:

"I never met a man that is not good in bed and is good in life"

Basically it means that sex is about listening and giving and if you have nothing to give you won't get any.
You are young and hot now girls will like you for that, the older you get the more you have to give to get...

7:14 PM  
Blogger Masmida said...

"if not for the the desire for arayot, no one would have children, build houses and develop the world"

use it.

8:03 PM  
Blogger EN said...

It is disgusting. I feel myself losing self control. I have no self control. I feel my lack of self contol will have an adverse effect on my performance in a relationship. (physical and emotional).

8:15 PM  
Blogger Elisheva said...

EN, I so understand you and it's supposed to be like so much harder for the guys. Sometimes I also feel I am too horny and too giddy and will lose control. But I just daven to Hashem and I know He wouldn't give me too much and I try to do chessed and mitzvos and get distracted. it doesn't always work, but I try and it helps.


2:16 AM  
Blogger Littleredridinghoodie said...

IT IS NOT DISGUSTING! You are human and you have to accept that about yourself. The same way a woman is not DISGUSTING when she is in Nidah. We have to do what is healthy for us. You are not missing anything by not "f@!*ing" around! You are preserving yourself and waiting, Chosing if you will, a worthy partner to bring kedusha in to your life. Sex is a big mitzvah and in the right time it will bring you great pleasures.

10:37 AM  
Blogger Littleredridinghoodie said...

12:40 PM  
Blogger Chana said...

You are a normal human being, decent in your own way, making your way through life, which is by necessity a rather complicated and difficult process.

It'd be more distressing, perhaps, if you weren't affected by the idea of sex...

11:58 PM  

Post a Comment

<< Home